Showing posts with label #North Dakota. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #North Dakota. Show all posts

Thursday, October 17, 2024

Girls Weekend, North Dakota. Wednesday, October 16, 2024


Wednesday, October 16


We woke up today in Fargo!  We hadn’t really made any plans for what to do here, so I did what I do and went in search on the internet for things to do in Fargo.  Right away something popped up that looked interesting and unique and after reading the description to Kath we decided to go for it.  It is a “Murder Mystery Detective Experience” call “Motive for Murder”.  Sounds interesting, doesn't it?  We thought so.  You download an app on your phone which provides you with a map of locations where you go to gather clues as to who committed the murder.  Two maps are provided: one for walking and one for driving.  What a great way to get to know the town!!  We opted for the walking option, even though it is supposed to be windy here today (which is quite common if you listen to the locals) with a high of 67, but the wind makes if feel about 10 degrees cooler.  There is audio on the app, too, where I think clues are provided.  It could end up being silly, but what the heck, it sounds like fun. We also decided to continue our tradition of doing an Escape Room on our trips and booked an Escape Room adventure, too!  Gone are the days, it appears (probably because of COVID), where you join people you don’t know for an Escape Room.  All of the rooms/bookings are private.  The minimum number of people “required” for the one we chose, “Museum of Terror”, is three so, after Kathi called, we were told we could do it with two, but had to pay as if our party was three.  We really love our escape rooms, so we went ahead and booked it. We’ll see how we do in solving both the murder mystery and the escape room.


Before leaving for the Escape Room we went out the back door of our Airbnb to the “Art and Learning” store that is just across a parking lot from us. Our Airbnb host owns the store and works there and it seemed like it would have been a shame not to go over and introduce ourselves. So we went and chatted with him for a bit and browsed the store which is an art supply store as well as what I think would best be described as a teacher resource store.  Then it was near 1 o’clock and our escape room appointment was for 1:30 so we left and made our way to Puzzled Escape Rooms.  The door was locked when we arrived so we had to ring the bell a couple of times before someone came and let us in.  We were escorted into our room, where the woman told us the basic rules of an escape room as well as how to go about asking for clues.  Once she left the room, the hunt was on for clues!  Unfortunately, we once again, as so many times before, failed to solve all of the puzzles within the allotted one hour, but we were pretty darn close and we had a lot of fun trying.  The goal was to figure out enough clues to find the keys to five locks to keep Dracula from coming back to life. We found four of them and were only a couple of clues away from finding the key for the final one. Considering the room was created to be challenging for larger groups, we are pretty dang proud of ourselves.  I highly recommend trying an escape room if you have never done one.  It is a great way to spend an hour and test your problem-solving skills.


Next on our agenda was the Murder Mystery Detective Experience!!  First, however, we stopped at a nearby Starbucks for a quick pick-me-up, and we stopped at the house because I couldn’t remember if I had taken my morning meds and I wanted to check before we got any further into the day.  Turned out I had, indeed, taken my meds so all was well.  Next we stopped at the post office so I could mail out postcards to my grandkids.  Kathi wanted to get a mailing envelope to mail the postcard and the car bingo card she got for her granddaughter, Amara.  Once those tasks were accomplished, we mapped our way to the YMCA which was the starting point for our detective adventure.


This was fun although I think people around us must have wondered what in the heck we were doing.  We followed a map to different locations around downtown Fargo where we would stop and listen to the recorded “interviews” with witnesses and suspects.  We were also asked at each location to answer some question about the location. Questions about number of windows and doors or spotting certain characteristics of buildings that would help determine where the victim or the suspect was in “fuzzy” video obtained to help in the investigation.  In all we walked about 2.5 miles around town and it took us a little over 2 1/2 hours to stop at all the locations and listen to all the interviews and in the end, we were SUCCESSFUL in identifying the murderer!!  Kathi took selfies of us at each location to show that we truly were following all the clues.  We were very proud of ourselves for solving the mystery.

Once back “home”, we did most of our packing since my train leaves at 4:13am and I need to be at the train station by 3:30 so I can check my bag.  Crazy, right?  My hope is to try and catch some sleep on the train once I board, but I didn’t have much luck sleeping on the way here, so I’m not really hopeful!!  Kathi plans on coming back to the house because, heck, checkout time isn’t until 11am so she can take her time loading all her stuff into the car before starting the drive back to Indianapolis!


As always, we are sorry to see Girls Weekend come to an end but, as always, we had a wonderful time and feel blessed that we are able to take these getaways together and spend time in one another’s company.  We always feel refreshed after these adventures.


Until next year, blessings to you all and do your best to enjoy every day.


Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Girls Weekend, North Dakota. Tuesday, October 15, 2024

Tuesday, October 15, 2024

(Addendum from Lori: there are NO photos from today because all we did was drive across the entire state of North Dakota, from west to east and the most interesting things we did were not photo-worthy!! So, instead, I will add a sunset photo from a previous day just to add some eye candy!)




Kathi here. Despite the VERY late night watching Mare of Easttown, which is rivetingly wonderful, we were up at our normal 7:30 this morning.

Today is moving day. Lori’s train leaves Fargo at 4am Thursday, which is really the middle of the night on Wednesday if you ask me, so we thought we’d spend a full day in Fargo to see what there is to see. We usually don’t travel on GW until much later on the last day so that we have at least a little time on our travel day to do something in the morning. I have clearly informed Lori that the next time she travels by train, if she has to leave this early it needs to be on Friday, NOT Thursday.

Checkout time for the Belfield Airbnb was not until noon, so we enjoyed a few hours couching and writing and gaming and chatting, but then it was time to pack up and get out. We had purchased enough food for the entire trip, so I focused on kitchen duty, getting it nice and clean and gathering everything we were taking with us on the kitchen table, while Lori packed up her bags. Then we switched and Lori took over packing up the kitchen stuff and loading it into the car while I packed. We are extremely efficient and productive as partners, and by 11:45am mountain time the place was clean, linens stacked by the washer, all trash bagged and placed in the outside bin, and we were loaded up and pulling out of the driveway.

The drive from Belfield to Fargo is almost 4 ½ hours (which is why we did this today and not in the middle of the night on Wednesday/Thursday). With fond memories of Salem Sue and the Enchanted Highway on our trip out to Belfield floating through our minds, we toyed with the idea of stopping at the Bismarck Zoo on the way to Fargo, but decided against it since we lose an hour on this trip and darkness seems to come rather early here.

The speed limit here is 75mph, and since I’m a rule breaker at heart, I locked the cruise control on 80 and we zipped through the plains. I-94 is as straight as an arrow from end-to-end in this state, and I was tempted to do 85, but as Lori mentioned yesterday, we have literally seen only three other Black people here—not surprising since Black people make up only 3.2% of the population. Although I’m sure North Dakota has some wonderful and kind state police officers who wouldn’t dream of dragging a Black woman out of her car for no good reason, the statistics here are not in my favor. According to https://policescorecard.org/nd, despite representing only 3.2% of the population, Black people account for 13% of people arrested and 19% of those killed by ND police. They kill more unarmed people per arrest than 96% of states, and as of 2021, there were NO Black, Latino, Native American, Asian, or Pacific Islander members of the police forces. So yeah – 80 mph is good. That’s just a little insight into the mind of any Black person traveling on the roads, and the reason why my husband was not at all at ease with my choice to do this drive alone. We are ALWAYS thinking like this. Don’t believe anyone who tells you differently.

The wind here is a factor that has to be accounted for AT ALL TIMES. I have often wanted to burst into a chorus of Oklahoma on this trip. The number of syllables even fits. “Nooooooooooorth Da Ko Ta where the wind comes sweeping down the plains…” On this drive it was very apparent. I started noticing that the car swerved whenever I went through an overpass and realized that the wind was coming so hard from the south that I was automatically counterbalancing it to the degree that when it was blocked even for a second, my pressure on the steering wheel would send the car swerving to the right. Four and a half hours on the road isn’t really that long, but between the straight-as-an-arrow path with no diversity at all and the constant wind factor, it was somewhat exhausting. We stopped for gas about an hour from Belfield, and then for ice cream in Bismarck, after which Lori took a little snooze, but when she woke up she started a game of jeopardy. That was fun and distracting and helped a lot. However, I was very glad to see we were approaching west Fargo, where out Airbnb was located.

We arrived safely, and easily found our way to the “quaint little house” as our Airbnb was accurately described on the website, arriving at about 5:45 central time. We usually have good luck with our Airbnb choices (Maine is a glaring exception for those of you who may recall that adventure) and this one is also great. It’s an old house with character and is quite comfy with a nice large kitchen and living area. We alerted the host that we had arrived and moved everything in. We took inventory of what we might still need over the next not-quite-two days which mostly involved items to be able to make ourselves sandwiches for our trips home. I ran to the cute little grocery only 1 ½ blocks away while Lori made dinner (tonight it was chicken breast with dill and thyme, green beans, and couscous). We settled in to watch more of Mare of Easttown with our dinner. We got through 1 ½ episodes when I caught Lori snoozing again, so I declared it bedtime.

Girls Weekend days are great days even when all we do is move from one place to another!